Writing the first email online dating

Another guest post, this time from a good friend of mine – Sebastyne from Australia. For a girl, it means a flood of absolutely ridiculous emails, and this is where I come in.

She has a lot of experience when it comes to online dating, so take what she has to say seriously! To start with, I want to set straight a common misconception about online dating. The great thing about online dating is that it gives you a lot more options.

Sure, male biology is accurate and men do love the chase, so I am not telling you to keep chasing him after you send an initial email.

You must shift the digital dating process and allow him to pursue you after initial contact.

Ask any man if he would be flattered if an attractive woman wrote to him first, and he will tell you he would be thrilled.

Instead, write about her, why exactly did you find her interesting, and why you wanted to contact her in the first place.

That makes her feel like you actually do mean to contact her and not just any girl.

If there isn’t anything like that, but you still want to write to her, mention the reason why, but don’t just cop out by saying you really like her boobs, ass or figure in general. My husband described me “sensual” in his first email in case you are curious. Pretending is never good, as you will appear sleazy and that will not get you far with most girls.

Be as sincere as you can, be happy to compliment her even if she wasn’t interested in you. No matter what you look like, always include a photo of yourself to the email or on your dating profile.

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