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And so, when I realised that the vast majority of my favourite black bloggers were in relationships with white men, you can imagine why I thought I was being paranoid.I could not help but wonder if I was falling into the trap of being hypersensitive, and hyperaware about all things race.If ‘The Hunger Games’ has Jennifer Lawrence, then ‘The Woke Games’ has Jesse Williams.Each oppressed black person battles to affirm their social consciousness amidst a world of chaos (read: a world before and after Donald Trump).When preference is coloured with years of viewing black men and women as inferior and not worthy of attraction let alone love, it is difficult to prove that preference is simply preference and not awash with racist undertones.And so, when black women specifically seek out white men, it is similarly difficult to prove that it is solely a preference and not as a result of internalized racism and self-hate.She is a creative who graces Instagram with each artistic post. You question whether she’s a painter in her spare time, as each picture looks delicately crafted as if dipped in some kind of melanated honey.It was in one fateful post in which I saw her with her white bae. She’s an avid reader and one imagines what it would be like to be her best friend: “Shall we read and chill? But first, let me head wrap.” These fantasies will forever be a goal.

Realistically, an answer to this question is only ever going to be anecdotal.This video, although disgusting, wasn’t in any shape or form shocking.Could it be that woke white men are more inclined to appreciate darker-skinned women than black men?When we sit around with friends and lament that “there are no black men around,” maybe we should be saying “there are no black men around who are attracted to us.” Again, something empowering about being rejected by your own race.The number of dating sites matching white men with black women seems unnerving to me.

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