Shyness and dating tips

There are lots of women who have good romantic lives, but who still consider themselves shy around guys at heart, and wish they weren’t so inhibited at times.

There are women who were pretty shy in high school and during the first year or two of college, and it delayed the start of their dating lives somewhat, but they got worked through the worst of it by their early twenties.

The whole idea is to overcome that set of frustrating fears that currently have you kind of mired in an anxious, shy place.

If your shyness is currently keeping you from dating or is making dating a painful ordeal, I want you to consider getting five to ten sessions of counseling with a therapist who has a great reputation for helping people.

Practice dating with someone who is not a potential partner for you.

This can be your cousin or your sister or your old friend—somebody that you like.

And then there are the women in their mid-twenties or later who are still very inexperienced (more on that later on).

You would think about this person and I would urge you to stay relaxed and eventually I would move you all the way through the hierarchy getting up into the place where now you’re actually thinking about going to the telephone and calling a person.

She might take longer to open up to you or feel comfortable around your friends and family, but if you allow her to take her time, it will be well-worth the effort.

Spending lots of quality time with her is key, and you can help her get to know you just by being yourself.

It won’t matter who it is, you’ll get some laughs from it. As you practice doing these things, you feel more and surer of yourself.

As the shyness begins to subside you will no longer feel quite the same intensity of anxiety.

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