Red flags for dating a loser
Even his friends admit that they can’t depend on him as Mr Neglect always takes things as they come and never plans things too far ahead.He complains that his past girlfriends were too uptight, too controlling or wanted too much from the relationship.There is a huge difference between dating someone who has found health after the demise of a substantial relationship and one who is moving on quickly because their ex was the one with “all the problems.” If you are in a dating relationship with someone with the traits above, my prayer for you is to recognize it and separate.The longer it lasts the harder it becomes to see them rightly.
I listened to my pastor husband talk about love, honor and submission. He clarified how submission doesn’t mean abuse and happens in a context where the man is submitted to Jesus. If you didn’t know them, by observing their life would you say, “Wow, that person loves and follows Jesus!
If your beau has an “ex” anything and children from that relationship, then he or she better be telling you all the ways God has worked to change his/her heart since then.
If you only know that “she was psycho” or that “he had issues,” then they aren’t ready to move on.
He rarely returns your calls and it feels like you are always chasing him trying to pin him down.
However he gives you mixed messages to keep you hanging around and explains his discourteous behaviour as “just his way”.