Play hard to get while dating
I was surrounded by encouragement, pre-date pep talks, outfit recommendations, funny first date stories, and an abundance of dating advice.When I look back on all of the advice I was given, there is no doubt in my mind that it was all well-intentioned.But what I quickly came to realize is that not all dating advice is created equal.After that first date with Joseph (who is now my husband!We want our articles to be accessible to everyone, free of charge, but we need your help.To continue our efforts to nourish and inspire our Catholic family, your support is invaluable. Following “The Rules” that state that you cannot seem too interested in a guy is probably the wrong way to go about getting your man. Do we really think that “treat ’em mean to keep ’em keen” is really all it’s cracked up to be?It seems that the dating world is full of guys being overly cool and girls being uncommonly cold.
Like John Travolta’s character Danny Zuko in Grease, the men of today (and yesteryear) all labour through the trials of dating under the misguided notion that “playing it cool” gets the girl. Well, if the dating game today is anything to go by, then apparently we do.
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How then, can we find our perfect match if both guys and girls try their best to seem uninterested?
Well, it might help to first figure out which side the players are on in this big game of indifference.