Internet dating schemes
At some point “she” asks for money, sometimes in order to come visit you or because someone is ill. Finally, if a person’s emails don’t seem to be following earlier conversations or contradict things that were already said, it could be your “dream date” is using a scripted seduction, copied from a previous target.
The person pretends to get to know you and like you. Steer clear of any date that asks you to send her money.(Realize, of course, that the “recent” picture they send may not truly be recent — or it may not even be a picture of your “date.”) Also, protect yourself from people who might be emotionally unstable.Until you get to know your date better, conceal your personal information, agree to meet only in public and always let a friend know where you will be. Later, when she puzzled over their relationship, she'd remember this. That had been a fateful move; it made everything easier for him. After the funeral, a grief counselor told her to make no sudden changes in her life for at least a year, and she followed that advice. Two sharp blows that had left her alone in her late 50s. His cancer took him swiftly, before she had time to process what was happening.