Inexperienced with dating

The fact that I’m inexperienced leaves me feeling like if we get there, I’ll be awkward and mess up and end up being embarassed (i.e.saying the wrong thing, going for something at the wrong time, not lasting, etc.) I know at 20 most people my age obviously don’t have a lot of experience anyways, but on average my friends (both guys and girls) have done it way more times than I have so I feel like most girls I end up meeting will be closer to them than me.And it’s always concerned me that when they find out that I’m as inexperienced as I am it’ll just end up creating issues either before or after.I have a feeling a lot of people’s responses will be about talking to the other person and explaining all of this to them in hopes that they’ll understand and work with me if they’re truly the right person (with almost every girl I date it never ends up lasting long enough to get to that point so I’ve never had to talk to anyone yet lol).Nowadays my inexperience in dating which is a result of this anxiety still keeps me from trying.Every time I notice a sign which makes me think I should go for it immediately I start to worry what if I am just seeing things.

You are not creeping, most good first dates ends in a kiss for me.

One moment I think she likes me and then the doubt kicks in again.

What if she doesn't like me, what if she doesn't want more than just friends, what if I go for a kiss and she thinks I am a creep.

Even though I’m fairly conservative in my dating habits (I don’t follow like the 3 date rule or anything.

Sex is legitimately one of the last things on my mind in the beginning of any relationship) I’m not so conservative as to agree with the idea of waiting until marriage.

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