Im dating your husband
One recurring theme that often comes up is dating your spouse while separated.
Many of them center around when it’s okay to start dating again and if you should do so while you’re separated but still married.
But you’re determined to move forward because if you’ve learned one thing in the past year it’s that life is finite and you don’t want to waste another second of it wallowing in an unhealthy relationship that three children are viewing from front row seats. Yes, he knows all the buttons to push to flood you with rage but he also knows that you would far prefer wildflowers to roses and Doritos to chocolates on Valentine’s Day. Should you continue to share because, again, this is something a lot of people can relate to and you’ve had such a positive experience with readers thus far in your journey?
Or is it time to put up a wall until you are less confused and have a better handle on what’s been happening over these past few weeks?
I asked if she did not feel the same way about me as she did. I feel like she is scared of our relationship for fear it may end up again like her last? And I don't just mean unresolved in regards to the divorce process being finished, but unresolved psychologically and emotionally.
I have been treating her like I treat my other relationships, but I don't think she has been treated this well or nicely. I asked if she felt like she was missing out on some part of life of not being married? A typical scenario is that when people finally decide to separate, often after years of being unhappily married, they immediately start looking for more positive relationships.