Girl to chat with skype
So we have been together for just over a year and i came across a conversation on his skype with a random girl he met on the internet..probably wouldnt have bothered me but the stuff that he was saying was just horrible, he was telling to take her clothes off and do things for him.
After i confronted him he was really upset and genuinely sorry saying he didnt want to loose me however i cant seem to get it out of my head.
He was trying to get intimate with another girl, even though he never physically touched her. Someone who asked to sexually play with another woman.
I forgave my bf because he told me he was truly sorry for what he did. HE STILL ****ING MAKES MY LIFE HE'LL AND YOU NEED TO ****ING GET RID OF HIM !!!!
Either way you're probably not going to like the answer, but if it was a case of skype chatting and left at that, it may just have been a form of sexual release that he didn't really see as real/ meaning anything.
If he was actually video calling with the girl though, then that, I feel, would be a significant breach of trust.
To immediately forgive and forget something like this, won't happen and it will take time, it will cause stress on your relationship and to get through it you will need to be extremely strong together as a couple, which is always made harder considering you probably feel your relationship is at it's weakest point right now and when you need it to be at it's strongest.
People do make mistakes, although it isn't an excuse, but if you really love him and you want it to work, then it's up to you as to whether or not you give him another chance, but be prepared that it could happen again and that for a while your trust will probably be at an all time low.
But what is really behind these contact requests and why do people bother?
Although if he's able to say those sort of things online, what're the risks of him actually doing it?
sounds like the trust may be degraded by quite a bit there. I wouldn't be impressed by that, and would personally wonder what he'd do/may already have done with a girl in person...
To find that out we played along and the following conversation ensued: At first sight it appears to be someone looking for companion.
But the dialogue is suspiciously general, questions are never really answered and the responses don’t allow for a meaningful discussion of any kind.