Ex is dating my friend
It’s understandable and I’m sure anyone would have done the same thing. There are a million men out there and you will fall in love again someday and then they won’t really matter, whether they are together or not. Pilossoph holds a Masters degree in journalism from Boston University.Lastly, I would tell your son that even if they announce they are a couple, he shouldn’t shut out his own father. 3) You are behaving badly, not talking to your friend because she is dating your ex. She is playing by the rules and you are being a sore loser. 2) You lied when you told your friend you no longer had feelings for your ex. Let's break this situation down and count all your mistakes: 1) NEVER break up with someone unless you mean it. If you thought that the "breakup" would only be temporary, then that's your biggest mistake.4) You are angry because she "should have known" that you still had feelings for your ex, because of all your hints, despite the fact that you said you're over him.I can’t even begin to tell you how badly I feel about your situation. Sounds like she left her husband for him, and I never have faith in relationships that begin with cheating and lies.It is so very difficult, and honestly, what your friend did to you is absolutely disgusting. I noticed that you said, “I’ve come to accept my divorce but I am struggling to accept her betrayal.” I disagree that you accept your divorce. Their relationship right now is sexy because it’s hidden. But deep in their minds, it’s shameful and they both know it.
The relationship lasted for about 6 months (I think) and years later, I’ve come to realize how silly and stupid I was for having the reaction I did. I remember people in my neighborhood would tell me they saw them out and I would seriously cringe, and then go home and cry. Make sure not to react in front of others because it could get back to your ex and your friend. This rule is almost never stated or enforced among queer communities.If you're gay, you will almost inevitably date a friend's ex at some point.Even if you meet someone to whom you think you have no previous connection, a 10-minute conversation almost always reveals that she went to high school with your college roommate, used to be on a volleyball team with that girl from your book club, and had a six-month stand with your favorite barista.Queers don't tend to expect our dates to come into our lives completely free of prior complication.