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Steve, I’m running your email, not only because you’re a regular commenter, but because it follows last week’s question so neatly.Steve’s a perfect example of a kind, relationship-oriented guy, who is extremely conscientious about the potential damage of two partners having different long-term goals.I’m wondering if there are other types of women worth taking a risk on.Maybe women who may have listed a less than accurate preference about having children to not scare people away?At first I was dismayed, but after some reflection told him we didn’t need to worry about that just yet and let’s just see how everything else goes.
I’m willing to take a risk by contacting women who list that they are “not sure” about wanting children.
Otherwise, accept the fact that it’s going to be a rare day, indeed, when you find the cute, kind, stable, age-appropriate, emotionally available person who ALSO eats only green foods. A sixty-year-old widow who will only date men 5-10 years younger. Again, there’s nothing wrong with these choices, except to point out that they are choices that are self-restricting.
A Jewish rocker with dreadlocks who wants to be with a Jewish woman. You can probably add other things to this list, including overweight women, older women, short men, and poor men.
It seems likely that women who list exactly how many children they want on are pretty set on their preferences too.
I don’t want to date someone, grow attached to her and then feel hurt when the parenthood issue sends us off on our separate ways.