Dating multiple people at the same
You might miss opportunities, you might miss dates, but at least you won't feel bad about having those opportunities in the first place.
You won't ever have to explain to someone "hey, you were really cool but I found this one person I like more".
If dating more than one person at a time makes you uncomfortable, just don't do it man.
I had a girl on a date raise this really well with me recently actually.
I really doubt this is going to be a popular opinion, but if you don't like that facet of the dating culture, don't conform to it.
If you see dating one person at a time as the honorable and right thing to do, then that's what you should do.
If both get serious then I've got a problem on my hands.
Who am I to think that these women are not playing the field as well? How stupid would I feel if I didn't play the field and later found out that one or both of these girls was seeing other guys too? Do you think it's a fair thing to do, or do you think it's risky/dangerous? Should I tell the women I'm seeing other people or keep it secret?
If one gets serious, then I have to hurt the other girl by cutting that relationship off.
I'm able to manage multiple friendships, because it's important to me, so maybe if relationships are important enough, I can pull it off.
The biggest element of my quandary is deciding whether I should tell both girls about the fact that I want to see other people.
Quantity is ok, but I've never been seriously sexual with two women at the same time.
In fact I've never had sex with two different women within at least 3 months.