Dating girls in the philippines
This goes back to what I discussed in point one: given that most Filipinas speak passable English, why waste your time on one who can barely grunt out Filipino culture isn’t exactly intellectual to begin with; at times, it feels like this place got frozen in time somewhere around 1987.There’s no reason to make things hard on yourself by trying to screw a girl who isn’t smart enough to count to ten in a language she was Half the girls here dream of being married to a white guy, and when she tells her family she’s dating a foreigner, they practically high-five each other.For every girl who tries to force you into her frame or extort money out of you, there are three more who will treat you like a king.There’s no reason to put up with shit from one girl where there are so many more willing to sleep with you.It’s nowhere to play with men is the last minute meeting change-up.It goes like this: you’ll start texting her, she’ll agree to meet you at place X, but then an hour before you meet, she’ll suddenly text you asking to meet at place Y instead because it’s “closer.” This is despite the fact that she had no problem meeting you at place X the night before.In a country where English is so widely used and learning it is mandatory, what does that say about girls who can barely write in it? I made the mistake of trying to date one girl who could only send illiterate one-syllable word texts, and most of our “date” consisted of me pantomiming with my arms hoping and praying something would penetrate her thick skull.
Now if you are Filipino reading this I want you to stop here and think: If you didn’t know me, had no clue what I was doing here in the Philippines. What would your guess be as to how I got here, and why I choose to stay here? We headed to the market in Cebu to pick up fresh vegetables.
As you’d expect from a second-world country, the Philippines lacks many of the labor protections that Americans take for granted.
When it comes to girls you date who have jobs (particularly teenage girls), most of them are working twelve hours a day, six days a week.
English is one of the official languages of the Philippines, learning it is mandatory in schools, and the government favors it when it comes to written documentation.
While few Filipinos are 100 percent fluent in English, you can hold conversations with them easily provided you tone down your use of slang and ten-dollar words.