Dating and waiting to reconnect
What are three simple actions that you could do in the next few days that would help the two of you reconnect? Love 2.0: How Our Supreme Emotion Affects Everything We Think, Do, Feel, and Become. Maybe you’re looking for the love of your life, or maybe you’re just looking for a first date to get over your nerves.Rather, it’s how often those moments of connection happen, how many there are in a day. Bring something up instead of letting it simmer inside you. Most of the time, though, it’s no single choice that determines the outcome. Love, says Fredrickson, “is something that we should re-cultivate every morning, every afternoon, and every evening. Instead, opportunities for connection are everywhere. Once you understand this principle, you’ll realize that drifting apart is neither random nor inevitable.
David let’s Sara know that he had a rough day, and she says, “well at least you got a lunch break.” David’s too tired to watch a movie. If these moments are in the majority, couples like David and Sara are likely to feel that they’re drifting apart. A path to reconnection Sara and David’s experience shows a drifting apart that happens in not only marriages, but also with friends, colleagues, and family.It cost 3 million to design the spacecraft, million to launch it, and million to operate it once it was in flight.Everything worked well until it finally reached its destination…and was torn apart by atmospheric pressure. The problem turned out to be a small arithmetic error.One piece of software used a certain unit of measurement (pounds), while another piece of software used another measurement (Netwons,, the metric version).The miscalculation itself was a small error, one a high-school physics student might make.