Dating a pre op transwoman
I since have had men want to date me till I dutifully outed myself to them.
Then they book it for the hills looking for a cold shower somewhere.
It is rather difficult to bring up that topic in person. I recommend moving to San Francisco, Portland, New York, or Boston (based on my limited knowledge of where people are more trans friendly and open minded).
Also I think you should post some pics...know...science. I imagine that depending on what country you are in you will encounter fewer or at least different issues with this. Personally, I would have no problem with dating a pre- or post-op translady.
On the other hand, I fear waiting too long could cause terrible trauma to a guy. EDIT 1 - Even if you wouldn't date a transwoman as some of you said, what would be the best way to break it to you if you tried to "pick one up by accident?
" (its happened to me so looking for tips)EDIT 2 - I am very please with everyone's Honesty. I want to date men but I fear hurting their feelings by coming out to them and hence find my weekends being "forever alone".
Not hide her from them or anything, but just not let them know that she was trans.We phrased it as, "What if you met me, we clicked, and I later told you I was post/pre-op transperson?"Here is my answer: While I'm unbothered and accepting of gay folks, I personally have no interest in my own gender sexually.I'm obese and have terrible problems with acne, and have had a total of one girlfriend my entire life(even though I'm 30).There's a saying my mother is quite fond of, there's never an old shoe you can't find an old sock to fit. I'd be interested in getting to know you better.