Dating a man 30 years older than me
That take-charge attitude and the desire to take care of his woman is plenty appealing.Younger guys tend to be jealous at the drop of a hat. But how nice is it to be with a man who knows that, from time to time, another man will admire his lady…and not freak out about it? He’s assured of what he has (including you) and isn’t threatened by another man.At least then you know immediately whether you want to pursue something with him or not, based on whether your goals are aligned.Chalk it up to older men having more life experience: they tend to be more confident.Let’s look at both so you can decide whether dating an older man is appealing to you or not.You’ve dated your share of men your age…and even younger.
Here’s what it said: “…it is evolutionarily beneficial for women to seek older mates, and that there will be no significant difference in attachment styles between women in age-gap versus similar-age relationships.” What this means is that it’s an evolutionary pattern that women are drawn to older men, in part because of their status and resources. If you were pumping gas and a gorgeous Lamborghini/Tesla/Porsche pulled up next to you with a good-looking older man in it, wouldn’t you do a double-take?There’s appeal in that, and you can’t always find it with a younger guy who’s still struggling to find his foothold in his career.He’s already played games in his 20s…and he’s over it.Speaking of communication, there’s a better chance that an older guy will be a better communicator than a younger one.Again, if he’s been in at least one long-term relationship, the subject of communication more than likely came up, so hopefully, he’s learned how to express himself in constructive ways that will make him a good partner.