Chat with straight men about sex
This experience seems to be ubiquitous in heterosexual relationships. Does anal really feel that much better than vaginal sex?Or is it about the feeling of dominance, more than anything else? The topic of the male obsession with anal is treated as somewhat of a joke in popular culture.
Every guy I've dated has requested anal at some point, even to the point of begging.
They tended to view anal sex as a social accomplishment, and their partner as submissive because their partners had "allowed" them to do anal sex.
For them, the accomplishment of getting a girl to do anal signified a level of sexual prowess that figured significantly into their confidence.
When speaking to me, they described anal sex as tighter, more slippery, and more pleasurable.
Additionally, they described feeling a sense of dominance and control towards their female partners.