1st year sobriety and problems dating
They need to get to know themselves on a very deep level and enjoy self-acceptance before rushing into a sexual relationship.” She advocates psychotherapy for examining past behaviors and coming into the self-acceptance necessary for entering into healthy relationships.
Rosalyn Dischiavo, a sexologist and licensed addiction counselor, has a cheerier outlook: “There is another, more optimistic truth about love in early sobriety: it shows that you are healing. Date like it's 1955, whether it's with someone new, or with your current partner or spouse. Belisa Vranich—a clinical psychologist specializing in sex and relationships—all agree that there is no reason why addicts and alcoholics shouldn’t be dating other addicts and alcoholics.In therapy, you will work on assessing readiness, especially for the dating game.If your partner needs support, couples counseling and ALANON meetings are recommended.Like a lot of things, learning how to date and discovering what’s appropriate and what’s not takes following other people’s rules until you’re well enough to figure out your own.Recovery is a time for self-care and reflection, establishing structure and controlling urges.